4 wholesome ways to measure your life in love

IMG_0031Most of the Northeast got hit hard with snow yesterday, but I think it’s half way melted with all this love in the air. I lit my love candle and been wearing my rose quartz bracelet. Last night I even meditated with amethyst because it’s associated with St. Valentine according to Florence Megemont:

Amethyst is the stone of St. Valentine and of faithful lovers because St. Valentine was thought to have worn an Amethyst ring engraved with the image of Cupid. It is also referred to as the ā€œcoupleā€™s stoneā€ and gives meaning to relationships that over time, transcends the carnal union and gives way to deeper connection and a more soulful communion. Wear as an engagement or eternity ring for fidelity, or as a locket to call back lost love.Ā 

I know I don’t have a compassionate husband (yet) but today feels amazingly breathtaking as if I already did! I feel like sipping morning tea and eating loads of chocolate treats as the perfect way to spend the holiday with him. <3

Been time traveling recently though and just keep getting hit with interesting intuitive tid bits from the big U. I even performed one of my own Love & Light readingsĀ on myself to see what the angels had to say about my heart chakra journey thus far.


Just the usual obvious in-your-face stuff.

  • Me falling for someone that don’t love me.
  • Me holding back my love out of fear.
  • And finally realizing that my soul mate isn’t going to come in a lovely Bernard pre-approved package.

However my journey with love shall be, will simply be. I know I am attracting my self-worth and trying to be graceful like a swan with everything that’s happening in my life.

Today pulls heavier when it comes to love and romance because everyone and their valentine are talking,thinking and feeling love. It’s the only time some people consciously are bold + vulnerable with their heartstrings. Why can’t every day be just as heart swooning, cupid-reeling, and pink polka dotted?

There has to be a balance and measuring life in love comes from the simple pleasures mostly (click to tweet). Just like the daily stressors that add up in powerful spurts of negativity, the same goes for small pockets of sunshiney positivity! So the goal here is to embrace the small stuff:

Gestures of thanks

This is all about gratitude. Affirming your appreciation and thankfulness for something you have experienced is one way to keep your love meter from expiring.

Tokens of youthful intention

Flowers and lady bugs are a couple of things I gave to my mom when I would play outside. I felt like these were cute offerings to remind her that I Loved Her. Think about your relationship with others and the small trinkets you can offer them to remind them of your bond, when you met or just thinking of them.

Generous acts of kindness (nothing random about it)

Acts of kindness are never random, but intentional. Recipients can get so caught up on the spontaneity of the moment and resist the act altogether. So if you do experience it, pay it forward! You can open the door for another soul or offer to pay for someone’s groceries in the 10 items or less checkout. Warning this is contagious so be prepared for karmic pleasure!Ā 

Warm expressions

A simple thing that I am working on myself while I am around others is to simply…smile. Yes, the one form of communication that heals and lifts spirits. When the act of smiling is authentic (yes the body and people know when you are faking it) it creates an understood connection in positive energy. Another warm expression would be to hug. Sometimes a hug can really make someone’s day!

So there you have it, firefly! 4 wholesome ways to measure your life in love. Did you love this? Why not let me know on my Facebook, would love to chat with you all about love. Because I love…love! Play the video below to listen to frequency of love.

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